August 3, 1956

You probably won't be able to reach me by
return mail so if you write to
Delhi Ont c//o Burns Foster I will
get it up to Aug 15th
Your last letter took 4 days.
I leave here Mon Aug 10,

305 Waverly Hall
Syracuse 10 N.Y. U.S.A.
August 3, 1956

Greetings Janet;

I received your letter half an hour ago and, according to you, as it takes a longer time span for a letter to cross the continent from east to west there is hardly enough time to get this to you, unless we get good communications, before you head off on your adventure.

This has been a bad week for me.  I have been seriously awaiting 2 letters and yours in particular and of them have arrived and both let me down from an anticipation that I have been building up.

The first letter was from Doug Johnston in Montreal.  He had promised to take his wife to the Maine coast on the weekend and I wanted to see him and had made all the necessary arrangements with his wife and children and employer.  I may decide to take a longer trip and end up in Maine myself for a day but the car has been behaving very badly and none of the local garages can fix it so I don't know whether to chance it. I think I may go straight across Niagara and up to Toronto and dicker with an automobile outfit on a new car.

The second letter was the one I received from you three quarters of an hour ago and you say your trip through the North is on.  I had almost hoped you would come east and meet me here as you thought you might do in your previous letter.

Do you know why?  Turn over the page and see if you can guess.

You need someone to look after you and I would like to volunteer my services in the capacity of your husband.  If you are interested in this matter, the necessary documents can be procured and plans for a suitable ceremony can be arranged at your convenience.

I wrote a much more flowery proposal a week ago and almost made it to the post box but I hesitated when you didn't answer my last letter. I wanted to know just a little more surely in my own mind that I was on the right track at last and I think now that I was right in waiting.

I am not quite sure how long it will take me to get to Vancouver. You say you will probably get there about August the 19th. I doubt if I can make it before about the 22 or 23 according to the stopovers I had planned at Delhi and Biggar.  Where can I contact you after the start of your voyage?  In Vancouver at Slights?

You decide what you want to do. I am agreeable to almost anything you might suggest.

Thank you for your faith in whatever is in me that keeps me from degenerating into nothing.  I needed some encouragement and knowing my weaknesses will need a lot more in the future probably.

The time has come my dear to get this in the mail so I will put it in an envelope and wish it a safe and rapid journey.

Love,

George

July 14, 1956

305 Waverly Avenue
Syracuse, New York
July 14, 1956

Greetings Jan

Thank you for the novel.  It is many moons since anyone has put so much to pen for me. Please do not expect a reciprocal quantity as there isn't that much to write about.

I am a bit disappointed in the courses so far. I was talked into switching from Goldstein's course-he is the supervisor for special education in New York and am now taking two courses dealing with intermediate slow learners,  One is a demonstration class and the other a follow up.  It is called a theory course but in reality it is a methods course.

The trouble with these courses is that they are not designed for the older kids. The reading materials are all Dick and Jane types. The art is done in the classroom, same as with all the other courses, and all in all the program is set up for the elementary school, not the junior high.

However, the woman teaching the demonstration class is a very good teacher so I am picking up a few techniques. Also the instructor in the afternoon course has had a fair amount of knowledge of the educational practices in this field for California so talks with him, if I can get him alone, should be helpful.  Another aid in my search is that my nextdoor neighbour has a junior high class in Toronto and at the same time is talking Goldstein's course on secondary education.  I am going to try to get in touch with Goldstein through him and see if it isn't possible to pick up some ideas on this problem.

There isn't anything to report on the socio-emotional front. I haven't even made an overture to an American femme yet.  My entire experience in the social world has been to split a few beers with the boys and I have had one formal type banquet for the vice president of the Ford Foundation because the Foundation just gave Syracuse four million dollars for education.

The thing I miss most hear is that there aren't any horses running in this vicinity.  They don't even carry any form charts in the local papers. Today I hope to catch Nashua running in the east and Swaps in the west on Radio Monitor.

Your letter made it in three days.  I will comply with your suggestion and see if a more rapid transit can be accomplished by aeroplane.

You sound as though you are in need of a vacation.  I hope your Northern excursion is still on. Take it easy.

George

Dad's UBC ID card

My Father's Letters

Our daughter Jordan was home last week. Recently engaged, she asked me what I knew about her grandparent's engagement since neither of them are around to tell her about it.

They were high school teachers in Dawson Creek when Dawson Creek was young. They were a bit older than most of their colleagues- Dad was a WW II pilot and an engineer before he became a teacher, Mom had a degree in Commerce and a Masters Degree from the U of A, but neither had found their "soulmate." As the only two single teachers at their school, they were frequently thrown together at staff events. Before long, they started going around together. Then they became an "item". Then they started wondering if they were just together because they were the only two single people they knew. Or maybe that the one thing they had in common was that they were both teachers. My dad got cold feet. He resigned his job, got a new one in Victoria, and went to Syracuse New York to take summer school courses in teaching special ed, which was for some reason the area he, as a decorated WW II pilot with an engineering degree, had been assigned. My mom stayed behind.  They wrote back and forth. My mom went on a cruise to Alaska to mend her broken heart. Out of the blue, my dad proposed.

"I know their story," I told Jordan.  "And I have his letter of proposal."

Stored away in a box of paper, my dad's love letters to my mom, in his perfect penmanship, written with a fountain pen in turquoise ink. Eleven letters I had never had the nerve to read. Eleven letters that went with her from Dawson Creek to Victoria to Trail, back to Dawson Creek, to Tumbler Ridge, and finally back to Victoria. Details both personal  and mundane. Why did she save them? Mementos of their early life together? A symbol of his love? Did she mean for anyone else to read them? I think she did. 

So I gave them to my daughter to read, and on a road trip to the airport from whence she would return to her adopted nation and her fiance, Jordan read them all with gasps and laughter and the occasional "Oh Granddad!"

Here they are.